Is Your Fear of Speaking In Public Holding You Back?
Most successful people will tell you their ability to speak in public is one of their most important prosperity skills. Warren Buffet, the king of investing, speaking to a class of business students at Columbia University in 2009, pointed to the significance of verbal communication. “You can improve your value by 50 percent just by learning communication skills – public speaking.”
That’s bad news if you’re one of the 75% of all people who have a fear of speaking in public. It is natural for you to do well at those things you enjoy doing and just as natural for you to avoid activities you dislike. When you have to speak in front of others at a small meeting, brainstorming session or formal presentation do you shake with fear, sweat profusely, feel short of breath and the list goes on. If you do, you have a fear of speaking in public.
What Can You Do? Can You Eliminate a Fear of Speaking in Public?
The good news is yes. The bad news is very few speech coaches or professionals know how to help you get over your fear of speaking without experiencing a lot of fear as you do. That is why most techniques to conquer a fear of speaking fail. When you begin to take a class in public speaking their focus is on having you, “Get over it,” or learn to “cope” with the fear. That Sucks! Even Warren Buffett will tell you he learned to put up with the fear rather than make it go away.
I Was Lucky
Even with a bachelors degree in speech, I found I was short of breath whenever it was my turn to do a talk. Fortunately, in graduate school I had a professor who was an expert at helping me overcome this problem. Ever since then, speaking has been a key part of my life. The reason I was lucky was he used techniques that were painless and fun. I didn’t have to experience the fear of speaking to eliminate it.
The really great news is the techniques I use to allow you to eliminate your fear of speaking are fun and easy. You do them by yourself and not in front of an audience.
Now that you know you can eliminate your fear without doing anything scary there is nothing to hold you back from the success you deserve.
My name is John Drebinger and I have been speaking for years in front of 1000’s of people. I have a degree in Speech and have earned the National Speakers Association’s highest earned designation, Certified Speaking Professional. As a student of communication skills I studied and a certificate as a Certified Hypnotherapist. Over the past 30 years in my seminars I have helped many people overcome their fear of speaking in public. Now I can do the same for you in the comfort of your home on your computer or tablet. My technique even worked with a speaker who had such a great fear that he threw up back stage before every speaking engagement.
But I’m Not Sure It’s Holding Me Back
I can assure you it is. What’s scary is that for most people they unconsciously come up with a solution to their fear of speaking, which prevents their success. Instead of eliminating the feelings of fear and discomfort they learn to avoid situations where they would have to speak publicly. They even do it unconsciously. What does that mean for you? Let me answer by asking you a few questions.
Do you hate contributing at small meetings where you and other employees are asked for input or ideas?
Are you frustrated because you had a great idea but didn’t present it and then someone else brings it up and steals your recognition?
When you are at a larger meeting where the audience is divided in smaller groups to “brainstorm,” do you avoid volunteering to be the person who reports for the group? I’ve even seen people take a restroom break at this moment just to be out of the room so they can’t be called on.
Are you filled with fear even when you just think of speaking in front of an audience
If you answered yes to any of these you are missing out on promotions and even avoiding positions that would accelerate your career. One of those lucky 25% who don’t have a fear of speaking are getting what you could easily achieve.
The Biggest Reason People Don’t Get Help Overcoming Their Fear of Speaking
Thousands of people will visit this website curious about how we help them overcome their fear of speaking in public. The sad part is most of them will never buy our system for eliminating their fear of speaking. Why? The price?
No! The biggest reason is they fear the “cure” will be as painful as the fear of speaking itself.
I have surveyed audiences who were attending my three-day seminar in communication and presentation skills. Over the past 30 years, I asked them how great was their fear of speaking in public. I started by asking them to raise their hand if they had a fear of speaking. Guess what? Very few people raised their hand. At first, I was confused because I knew how universal a fear of speaking in public was. Over 75% of all people have a fear of speaking in public. Were my attendees different than everyone else? No, they were so afraid of speaking in public they feared if they admitted it publicly I would bring them on stage to “help” them overcome it.
My solution was to hand out cards and let people write on the card how afraid of speaking they were. I told them to mark a 10 if speaking in public was their greatest fear and put down a zero or 1 if they actually enjoyed public speaking.
Suddenly, when they could answer anonymously the results matched the 75% number that many studies have confirmed.
The Most Important Factor in Helping People Eliminate Their Fear of Speaking
Since I overcame my discomfort or fear of speaking in front of others, I have learned several techniques to help my students eliminate their fear. The most important factor in deciding which techniques to use was they had to be fun and or easy. If the technique caused the person to experience fear then I knew they wouldn’t start or finish the process. My graduate school professor helped me and other students eliminate all and I do mean all of our speaking problems and we had fun doing it. I can tell you there was no fear while eliminating my fear of speaking.
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I’m so confident this will work for you, I offer a no questions asked money back policy.
How can I do that? Won’t people just do the No More Stage Fright method and then ask for their money back getting the result for free? No, because people who have used this method are so grateful they can now speak in public with confidence and even enjoy it they would be willing to pay me even more than the small fee we charge.
Yes, I Want to Break Through The Fear of Speaking That’s Been Holding Me Back From The Success I Deserve!
Email: sandie@drebinger.com
Yes, in less than 2 hours, you can go from quaking in your boots to serene confidence as you step up to speak. When you follow the simple steps in the “Enjoy Public Speaking…Say Goodbye to Fear” course you will be blown away by how assuredly you walk up to share your insights with people. Your audience will see how relaxed you are and think you’ve always presented to groups easily.
With the “No More Stage Fright…Say Goodbye to Fear” course, you’ll…
- Get access to the 90-minute online course that will walk you through a process to eliminate your fear of speaking in public;
- Follow the 8 steps outlined in the course;
- Complete all the activities associated with the steps;
- Finish in less than 2 hours;
- Be calm and assured in public;
- Speak confidently;
- Have email access for any questions you may have about speaking;
- See results that will last forever; and
- Bear no risk with the 30-day guarantee!
I must be crazy to provide these incredible techniques for only $49.97! That’s right you can easily eliminate your fear of speaking for less than a twenty dollar bill. But this price won’t last long. Our marketing consultant actually thinks sales will increase if we raise it to $99.97! They claim the perceived value is higher and results in more people buying. I just want to reach as many people as possible so act now.
You can register for only $49.97 (For a very short time while we test this offer) and if you’re not 100% happy with the outcome within 30 days, get your money back! There’s no risk to give this a try!
email: sandie@drebinger.com
Yes, I want to say goodbye to my fear of speaking today!
Are You Like a Deer Caught In the Headlights?
Are you frozen and can’t take action to fight your fears?
If you’re one of over 75% of all people who have a fear of speaking in public, you also have the mistaken belief you have no control over it. Psychologists tell us people fear most what they have no control over. The good news you actually can control your fear of being in the spotlight. How you ask? By eliminating it! Before I tell you how, consider this…
This course only takes 90 minutes and you’ll be amazed! You’ll actually want to walk up on a stage to share your story!
And…it’s 100% guaranteed! If you’re not totally happy after you complete it you can get your money back – no questions asked! So it’s risk-free!
Oh and it’s not scary! You don’t have to do a bunch of stuff to get you out of or stretch your comfort zone! Just listen and do the exercises and “poof” the fear is gone!
Move Forward in Your Career
The worst part is just like that deer, who is going to get hit by the oncoming car, your fear of speaking in public is hurting you and you probably don’t even realize it. Why wouldn’t you be aware? Simple – the fear itself has caused you to avoid jobs, assignments, or promotions that would result in needing to speak in front of others. Do you ever accept an assignment or volunteer job that would require making a presentation? Of course not! Well…
Today is your day to change your life forever and eliminate that fear that’s been unconsciously holding you back. Click on the link to buy this course and eliminate your fear of speaking forever. If you take action today, you will get it for half the price we’ve sold it for to others. Act Now! This price will only last during this special promotion.
Did I tell you it’s guaranteed and it’s not scary and it only takes 90 minutes? Just buy it and… I’m sure you’ve heard of the phrase, “Get a life!”
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Remember Show and Tell?
Here’s a story from my editor, Sandie. “Show and Tell” is a fabulous time for young children to share a special event or a prized possession at school. Kids can’t wait for their turn and plan for their day in the spotlight. They love talking to their classmates! I remember being anxious for my turn to share early in my elementary school days!
Next thing I know, I was in sixth grade and I had to give an oral book report in front of the class. Oh my goodness! I was terrified! What happened since 2nd grade when I loved speaking to my friends? I had no problem talking as I was always in trouble for chatting when I wasn’t supposed to but to give a formal presentation had me petrified!
I had no excuses! I’ve always loved to read so I knew my material. I made a diorama so I even had a visual aid. My mom always made sure I looked nice so I didn’t have to worry about my appearance.
To be honest, I don’t remember exactly why I was frightened, just that I was. If I had known then what I know now I wouldn’t have been so scared. For years, I haven’t known how to get over that fear and to get back to that “Show and Tell” joy. I’ve since discovered the solution…how much would you like to be able to enjoy speaking in front of others just like “Show and Tell”?
John, in about an hour and a half, will walk you through techniques and exercises, which will do just that! He has developed a love of speaking during his life experiences and over 40 years of professional speaking. Did you notice I said “developed”? Yes, I did – he wasn’t born with it. He practiced his skill beginning with Scouting activities and has honed it to a fine art ever since. He has spoken around the world to small and large audiences, to individual companies or national conferences. In addition to a degree in Speech, he has earned the National Speakers Association’s coveted designation of Certified Speaking Professional. Only 761 speakers worldwide hold this certification. He’s also a Certified Hypnotherapist and has helped many clients overcome their fear of speaking. He can do the same for you!
If you still have doubts about the course, here’s an outline of what’s included:
- Myths About Fear of Speaking
- Facts About Speaking In Public
- Who Experiences a Fear of Speaking in Public?
- Other Approaches to Overcoming a Fear of speaking In Public
- What Methods will We be Using?
- Discomfort vs. Fear
- Change the Meaning – Change the Feeling
- Words You Say to Yourself
- How Did You Learn to be Uncomfortable Speaking in Public?
- How Are You Uncomfortable Today?
- Outcomes
- Make Your Outcome Sensory Specific
- Make Your Outcome Compelling
- Enough Is Enough
- Interrupt Patterns – Change Focus
- What Do All Fears of Public Speaking Have In Common?
- The Story of I
- It’s All About the Audience
- How to Change Your Internal Dialogue – Questions
- It’s All About Meaning
- Self-Talk
- Dealing with Negative Self-Talk
- Your New Skills
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Just Tell a Story!
Another story from Sandie. Kids love stories – when you say, “I’m going to tell you a story” to a kid they perk up and are all ears. Guess what! They never grow out of it – adults do too!
My 3-year-old grandson announces, “I’m gonna tell you a story!” and proceeds to tell the most nonsensical tale imaginable but we love it because we love him and that’s how he learns to tell stories. That is a skill that will serve him well as he grows and progresses through life in dealing with everyone – kids and adults.
Stories are tools used to teach, entertain, and parent. Telling stories is a natural gift but may be crafted into a much finer skill. There are many opportunities to learn storytelling and develop it into a fine art. Some are as simple as telling campfire stories at scout camp or telling stories to children.
When my son and I take my 10-year-old granddaughter backpacking for our annual one-nighter in the wilderness, one of our favorite evening-around-the-campfire activities is to share “The best backpacking invention”, “The best backpacking meal”, or “The best hike” and so on til we’re so tired we crawl into our tent to rest up for the next day’s adventures.
When I have the opportunity to share with an audience now I tell them a story – an event I experienced or perhaps something that happened to someone I know. Of course, there must be a moral or point to the narrative that expresses the purpose to which you are speaking. You may be wondering how I have the courage to stand up on that stage and tell the story. I’ve completed John’s course! So now I don’t need courage because I’m not afraid anymore!
Email: sandie@drebinger.com
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Do You Know How to Speak?
A method to gain competence (not confidence) is taking formal classes in college or attending a class on public speaking. Beginning with Speech 101, you can learn the technical points of telling stories and making presentations in public to become a speaker. As you progress through courses, you learn and practice more until you are technically ready for an audience.
BUT… , as a speech major in college, I didn’t learn anything about being COMFORTABLE in front of an audience.
This course will teach you to actually be comfortable in front of an audience and speak effectively, whether you are entertaining, teaching, presenting or just telling stories.
When you take the course, Enjoy Public Speaking…Say Goodbye to Fear, you will:
- follow the 8 steps outlined in the course;
- complete all the activities associated with the steps;
- finish in less than 2 hours;
- be calm and assured in public;
- speak confidently;
- see results that will last forever; and
- bear no risk with the 30-day guarantee!
Remember, it’s guaranteed and it’s not scary and it only takes 90 minutes!
You can register for only $49.97 and if you’re not 100% happy with the outcome within 30 days, get your money back! There’s no risk to give this a try!
Yes, I want to say goodbye to my fear of speaking today!
Email: sandie@drebinger.com